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I thought that women felt attracted to men for the same reasons that we feel attracted to women. I didn’t realize that it was possible to make beautiful women feel attracted to me for reasons OTHER than looks, so if they rejected me, I simply assumed, That’s all I knew because I was another brainwashed modern man who believed the junk I saw in TV and magazine advertisements.
Even though I saw below-average looking guys with beautiful women, I didn’t see that as real.
Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Before I discovered what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I was going through life assuming that beautiful women couldn’t like me because I wasn’t good looking enough. When I interacted with beautiful women, NOTHING that I was saying and doing was making them feel any attraction because all I was doing was talking to them in a nice, friendly way and expecting to be LIKED for it.
I didn’t even know how to attract women and thought that if I wore good enough clothes, styled my hair right and show them how good of a guy I was, they would like me and give me a chance. No one had ever told me that we men need to ACTIVELY make women feel attracted to us based on what we are saying and doing during an interaction.
There is no real way for women to capitalize on this phenomenon, other than to simply be aware of it upon “suddenly” becoming more attracted to a man. You just need to use a little bit of restraint and never, ever make a move.
You might be surprised by how much many women love the idea of male friends.
I didn’t know that she could actually feel attracted to him for OTHER reasons.
Explanation: Guys are pretty consistent when it comes to attraction.
If you showed them pictures of women and asked them which ones they'd want to have romantic sexytimes with, they would furrow their brows, think super-hard, and be like "Ummmm...
When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.
“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.