Pros and cons of dating a single mom secretly dating an older man
:)I'm a single mom by choice (got old and had my daughter on my own)... with no family near and older single friends who I decided to leave our comfortable lifestyle of wine clubs and travel - who just don't understand parenthood nor have interest in babysitting... But you're right, having a child all of a sudden takes away all that "need" to seek out a spouse (at least for me).
But always remember, the more perfect, the more competition. So if you are a 7 as a woman, go after a 5, and don’t grade yourself on a curve because of your accomplishments. I also think that you should give each guy you date two dates before you make a decision.
” song, then he can easily handle a conversation with my parents or friends.
Everyone always questions whether or not my boyfriend has a “dad bod,” and it makes me chuckle. let's just say I will never get over how gorgeous he is.
A couple of weeks ago I had coffee with a blind date who was attractive, interesting, and successful... Before that, I had a couple of dates and the next day had inexplicable headaches. Not only because it's time consuming when you already need an additional 2 hours in the day to get everything done, but also because there's no one that will love your children as much as you do.
I guess what I'm telling myself is--I'd rather be single. From my perspective as a working single mom, a guy has to be pretty special to take time away from my child when I already wish that I had more time with him.